爱华网新教结婚仪式
THE BEGINNING Before the ceremony, the Officiator provides the participants the rings, emblems, and gems, and gives them time to examine and inscribe them. It is customary to have the Officiator stand behind the participants, who face each other. Guests then stand or sit in a semi-circle around them, at a respectful distance. Guests may be asked to make short speeches before the ceremony begins. Officiator: Welcome, friends and family of <bride> and <groom>! Let us begin. OF FREE WILL Officiator: <bride>, are you here of your own free will? Bride: Yes Officiator: <groom>, are you here of your own free will? Groom: Yes Officiator: Are there any here who have legitimate cause to oppose this marriage? [Pause] THE GROOM's VOWS Officiator: <groom>, do you take <bride> to be your lawfully wedded wife? Groom: I do. Officiator: Do you pledge to love, cherish and honor her, through all your time in Dereth? Groom: I do. Officiator: Do you promise to remain faithful unto her, to support her, to be her finest friend, through all trials and tribulations, joys and victories? Groom: I do. Officiator: What seal do you place upon your vows? Groom: The seal of [my own honor/the name of a higher authority]. THE BRIDE'S VOWS Officiator: <bride>, do you take <groom> to be your lawfully wedded husband? Bride: I do. Officiator: Do you pledge to love, cherish, and honor him, through all your time in Dereth? Bride: I do. Officiator: Do you promise to remain faithful unto him, to support him, to be his finest friend, through all trials and tribulations, joys and victories? Bride: I do. Officiator: What seal do you place upon your vows? Bride: The seal of [my own honor/the name of a higher authority]. THE INTENTIONS Officiator: <bride>, please share with us your loving intentions toward <groom>. Bride: [Speak about how you will love and cherish the groom. It helps to have this prepared beforehand.] Officiator: <groom>, please share with use [sic] your loving intentions toward <bride>. Groom: [Speak about how you will love and cherish the groom. It helps to have this prepared beforehand.] FRIENDS AND FAMILY Officiator: You who stand here as witnesses are the friends and family of the bride and groom. You are charged with the task of helping them in their new role as wife and husband, to support them in their times of need, and to do all that you can to make their marriage a blessed and happy union. THE RINGS Officiator: Please exchange the rings. Groom: With this ring, I thee wed. Bride: With this ring, I thee wed. THE PRONOUNCEMENT Officiator: You have made your vows under the seals of that which you hold important. Officiator: Before the witnesses of your friends and family, you are now pronounced husband and wife. May your marriage bring you great happiness. [Guests may now congratulate the married couple. Emote freely. Save celebratory gems for use outside.]
神父面对新婚人和祝贺者,新娘在他的右侧,新郎在左侧.
结婚仪现在开始～～～
神父面对新婚人和祝贺者,新娘在他的右侧,新郎在左侧,
宣读:
主啊,我们来到你的面前,目睹祝福这对进入神圣婚姻殿堂的男女.照主旨意,二人合为一体,恭行婚礼终身偕老,地久天长;从此共喜走天路,互爱,互助,互教,互信;天父赐福盈门;使夫妇均沾洪恩;圣灵感化;敬爱救主;一生一世主前颂扬.
质问
在婚约即将缔成时,若有任何阻碍他们结合的事实,请马上提出,或永远保持缄默.
神父接着说: 我命令你们在主的面前,坦白任何阻碍你们结合的理由.
神父对新娘说:（新娘名）,你是否愿意这个男子成为你的丈夫与他缔结婚约?无论疾病还是健康,或任何其他理由,都爱他,照顾他,尊重他,接纳他,永远对他忠贞不渝直至生命尽头?
新娘回答: 我愿意.
神父又问新郎：（新郎名）,你是否愿意这个女人成为你的妻子与她缔结婚约?无论疾病还是健康,或任何其他理由,都爱她,照顾她,尊重她,接纳她,永远对她忠贞不渝直至生命尽头?
新郎回答: 我愿意.
神父对众人说: 你们是否都愿意为他们的结婚誓言做证?
众人答: 愿意
表白
神父: 谁把新娘嫁给了新郎?
新娘的父亲: 她自愿嫁给他,带着父母的祝福.
宣誓
新郎面对新娘拉起她的右手,说:
我以上帝的名义,郑重发誓:接受你成为我的妻子,从今日起,不论祸福,贵贱,疾病还是健康,都爱你,珍视你,直至死亡.
他们放下手.然后新娘举起新郎的手:
我以上帝的名义,郑重发誓:接受你成为我的丈夫,从今日起,不论祸福,贵贱,疾病还是健康,都爱你,珍视你,直至死亡.
他们放下手.祝福与交换婚戒
神父对戒指企求主赐福:
主啊,戒指将代表他们发出的誓言的约束.
众人: 阿门.
新郎将戒指带在新娘的左手无名指上,并说:
我给你这枚代表爱的象征的戒指,以圣父圣子圣灵的名义,给你我的一切.
新娘将戒指带在新郎的左手无名指上,并说:
我给你这枚代表爱的象征的戒指,以圣父圣子圣灵的名义,给你我的一切.
然后神甫拉起新娘和新郎的右手,说:
新娘新郎互相发誓毕接受了戒指.我以圣父圣子圣灵的名义宣布你们结为夫妇.上帝将你们结合在一起,任何人不得拆散.
众人: 阿门.
结束祈祷
神甫示意众人站起:
让我们站起身来一同引用救世主的话来祈祷.
神甫示意众人坐下,新人跪下,仪式继续,众人长赞歌.
神甫祝福新人道:
圣父圣子圣灵在上,保佑你们,祝福你们,赐予你们洪恩;你们将生死与共,阿门.我主洪恩与你们同在. 新娘与新郎站起身来面对面.
神甫说:
（新娘名）,（新郎名）,我已见证你们互相发誓爱对方,我感到万分喜悦向在坐各位宣布你们为夫妇,现在新郎可以吻新娘了.
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