爱华网Bad news traels quickly.And when it arrives ,we have to find a way to deal with it.If ourhusbands tell us they've moved on ,we look for project to distractus.If the bill start to stack up,we find ways to earn extra cash.Ifwe were told a secret too terrible to share ,we learn to keep it toourselves.But we must remember the bad news that's delivered,cansometimes be good news in disguise.
噩耗，总是不胫而走。它降临的时候，我们必须想办法应对。如果丈夫告诉我们，他们已经不念旧情，我们就应当追求新的目标。如果账单堆积不下，我们就另辟蹊径去赚钱。如果我们得知一个无法分享的噩耗，我们就把它埋在心间。但我们必须记住，既然噩耗已经无法避免，那么有时它也可能是好消息.
7-02
There are certain kind ofpain that can't be treated in hosptial.so those who are sufferingdo what they can to heal themselves.Some cure the ache ofloneliness by making new friends.Some soothe their excruciatingtheir guilt with an infusion of cash.Some alleviate their burningdesire with small acts of kindness.But sadly,there will always bethose who can't begin to heal ,because they realize there is morepain yet to come.
尘世间的痛苦，即使在医院也不会得以抚慰。所以受伤的人想要痊愈，只能借助自身的力量。结交新的朋友，可以释放寂寞的苦楚。金钱的慰藉，可以减轻深恶痛绝的自责。一个小小的善举，可以减缓灼热的欲望。但是很遗憾，世间有一种伤痛却无法让人治愈，因为他们意识到更大的痛苦还未到来.
7-03
Happiness,it's somethingeveryone searches for.Some are sure they'll find it once they'vemoved back home.Some think they'll find it by making a newfriend.Some hope to find it once they defeated the competition.Thenther are those who stop searching for happiness,because they lookup one day to discover it was right ther in front of them all thetime.
幸福，是所有人追寻的目标。有人相信一旦他们重回故居就可以找到它。有人认为结交了新朋友就可以找到它。有人希望打败了对手之后就可以找到他。然后，还有一些人停止了搜寻幸福，因为他们某天抬头发现，幸福就在眼前，一直在身边.
7-04
It's called a purse ,andas every woman knows it can hold just about anything .From a bottlefor a baby to a check for protection.to a gift for a new friend.Whatever you find inside ,there's one thing you can be sure of.Every purse says something about the woman who owns it.Whether sheknow or not.
这是一只皮包，每个女人都知道,任何东西都可以装在里面。婴儿的奶瓶，消灾用的支票，友人的礼物。无论你在包里发现了什么，有一点是肯定的。每只包里，都暗含着它女主人的故事。无论她自己是否知道。
7-05
He knew what he was doingwas wrong.He knew it was very dangerous.He knew the risks if peoplefound out.But Paul·Young wanted to punish those who had betrayedhim.So.he had a plan that would set neighbor against neighbor andfriend against friend.And it was a plan that was going tosucceed.
他知道自己所做的是错的，他知道这很危险，他知道如果有人发现会有什么风险。但是，保罗·杨要惩罚那些背叛了他的人。所以他有个计划，要让邻里反目，朋友成仇。而这个计划势在必得.
7-06
The time comes when we allmust find out what were afraid of.Some of us fear"she may neverforgive me."Others worry "she might learn the truth."A few wonder"Could he send me away?"Yes .The world is a scary place.Its evenmore terrifying if we have to face it alone.
这一刻，我们发现内心真正的恐惧。有人害怕"她不会再原谅我。"有人担心"她可能会知道真相."有人在想"他会赶我走吗？"没错，世界充满恐惧，当我们发现，要自己面对一切时，会更可怕.
7-07
Humiliation.It's notalways something we can avoid.We may have wives who insult ourmasculiity.We may take jobs we feel are beneath us.We may have boyfriends who make us feel old.Yes,there are all sort of ways to behumiliated in life.But the surest way to get your dignity back isto get what you've waiting for.
难堪，并不总能避而远之。我们的男子气概可能会被妻子侮辱。我们可能会接受让我们心有不甘的工作。我们可能会交个男友，让我们觉得很老。是的，生活中有很多方法会让我们觉得难堪；但确定能赢回尊严的方式，是得到一直渴望的东西。
7-08
Once a year,we remember tostop and count our blessings.We give thanks for the friends whounderstand us.The lovers who make us happy.The Children who do ourbidding.Yes ,we must be thankful for what we've been given even ifit's just an opportunity.
每年一次，我们记得要停下来细数我们得到的恩惠。我们感谢心有灵犀的朋友。我们感谢带给我们幸福的爱人。我们感谢对我们唯命是从的孩子。的确，我们要感谢所有给予我们的恩惠。哪怕只是一次机会.
7-09
It's a question we all askourselves.Do I trust the people who live next door? Will thatcouple across the street be there when I need them? Can I count onthe woman who lives down the block? Yes ,good neighbors are peoplewe can rely on.But if we discover our neighbors can't betrusted.Then it may be time to move
我们总是问自己。我相信我的邻居吗？对街的那对夫妇会在需要是出手相助吗？我能指望住在下街区的那个夫人吗？是的，好邻居就是我们能信任的人，但如果我们发现邻居不再可信了，那么也许就是搬家的时候了.
7-10
It was just before sunriseon Wisteria Lane.You could no longer hear the screams of frightenedby standers.or the angry chanting of protestors.or the cries forhelp from the injured.There wre just the footsteps of a man who hadfinally punished those who had betrayed him.The silence was brokenby something the neighbors would later say sounded like a gunshot.But Paul knew it was the sound of revenge.
这是黎明将至的紫藤巷。你再也听不到围观者的惊声尖叫，抗议者的愤怒，或是受伤者的呼唤。远处传来的只有一个男人的脚步声，他刚刚惩罚了曾经背叛他的人们。而寂静突然被过后有邻里声称听到的一声枪响打破.但是保罗知道,那是复仇之音.
7-11
Something happened in thesuburbs last week.A man was shot outside his home.Detectives werecalled to investigates.And they soon learned this man hadenemies.Some he was not even aware of.
上周城郊遭遇了不测，一名男子在家门口中枪。侦探们奉命调查，很快他们就发现，此人树敌众多。有的敌人，他甚至都不记得了.
7-12
We passby these people everyday.But we never look at them.We don't wannasee the sadness in their expressions.the longing in theirhearts.the loneliness in their eyes.But there are times we shouldstop and look at those isolated people.Why?Well.if we look closeenough.We might just recognise them.
我们每天都与他们擦身而过，但从没正眼看过他们。我们不愿看到他们脸上的悲伤，他们心中的渴望，他们眼中的孤独。但有时，我们应该停下来看一眼这些孤立的人。为什么？如果我们看到够仔细，我们或许能认出他们。
7-13
The world is filled withpeople who do ugly things.why do they act this way?some lie to keepfrom losing what they love.some lash out because they fear thefuture.some put up walls because they have regrets.Yes ,everyonehas a reason for the ugly things they do.and once they find outwhy. Then ,we can try to stop them.
这个世界充满了行事丑陋的人。有人编造谎言，以留住心中挚爱。有人恶语相向，因为他们惧怕未来。有人紧锁心门，因为他们存有遗憾。是的，每件丑事背后都有一个原因，一旦找到原因，我们就能阻止他们。
7-14
We may think we've leftthe past behind.But it has a way of catching up to us.Though wewant to run away.we are forced to confront our past.and the secretsthat it buried must come into lights.And then,if we are strong .weare able to move on.Yes ,we all need to leave the past behind.Andmove on towards the future.And if we are lucky.We will have helpgetting there.
我们或许认为，我们已经忘记过去。可往事总是想方设法的映入我们的脑海。尽管我们极力逃脱，还是要正面过去。我们深埋的秘密，也随之浮出水面。然后，如果我们足够坚强，就能顺利前行。没错，我们都得释怀过去，奔向美好的未来。如若有幸，会有贵人相助。
7-15
Leaving is never easy.Butthe time comes when we must move on.So we can leave our childhoodbehind.So we can let go of the past.So we can be a goodparent.Yes,leaving is never easy.Especially for those who havenowhere else to go.
告别，从来不易。可我们无路可退时，就无从选择。这样我们才得以长大成人；才得以告别过去；才得以为人父母。没错，告别不易，尤其是那些无处可去的人。
7-16
Our lives are brief.That'swhy it's important to searching for meaning.We find it in ourdaughter's smile.In the wormth of our friends or the comfort of ourfaith.Then there are those who those make their lives meaningful bymaking a great sacrifice.
人的一生如此短暂。因此，找到活着的意义至关重要。我们发现意义就在于女儿的开怀一笑，在于朋友的热情相待，在于信仰给予的安慰。然后还有一些人，靠做出巨大的牺牲来寻找他们活着的意义。
7-17
There comes a moment whenour lives change forever.The moment we admit our weaknesses.Themoment we rise to a challenge.The moment we accept a sacrifice orlet a loved one go.And sometimes...the change in our lives is ananswer to our prayers.
总有那么一刻，我们的人生从此改变了。我们坦诚弱点的那一刻，我们迎接挑战的那一刻，我们接受他人牺牲的那一刻或是对爱人放手的那一刻。有时候，我们人生的改变是对我们祈愿的回应。
7-18
Yes,whenever we makemistakes.we need to apologize.And then we need to move on.We musttry to accept the changes in our lives.Or choose to trust an oldenemy.Or learn to stop fighting our children's battles.Butsometimes the pain we've caused is so great,there is no movingon.
只要犯了错，就应该道歉。然后生活继续，努力接受生活中的变化，选择相信曾经的敌人，不再插手孩子的事。但有些时候，我们造成的伤害之大，以致让人无法继续。
7-19
Yes,the residents ofwisteria lane are nothing if not loyal.But there are times whenthat loyalty is put to the test.By the desire to help a strickenfriend.By the need to protect a long-buried secret.By the movementof two lives in opposite directions.And sometimes just as one testof loyalty ends.Another begins.
是的，紫藤军的居民个个忠诚无比。可有时候，这忠诚得经受考验。因为想照顾受到打击的朋友，因为要谨守朋友深藏多年的秘密，因为两个人的生活开始背道而驰。有时候，一场忠诚度检验结束，另一场又拉开序幕。
7-20
People do good deeds formany reasons.but sometimes good deeds have badconsequences.Correcting a colleague's mistake could breedresentment.Opening one's home to a friend can demage thatfriendship.Trying to bring a spouse closer might push her furtheraway.That's why there's an old expression about helping people.Nogood deed goes unpunished.
人们做好事的理由有很多，但有时好时却招致恶果。纠正同事的错误，会反遭怨恨。对朋友敞开家门，会有伤友情。想与配偶亲近，却反而离得更远。因此，有一句助人的古话说得好，一切善举，都要招致惩罚。
7-21
Yes,no matter who weare.we all experience moment of dread.When we ask ourselves,willanyone believe i'm innocent? Will my daughter be a child ofdivorce? Will this man break my hear? Are there things that go bumpin the night? And sometimes the answer is yes.
是的，不管是谁，都会有害怕的时候。尤其是当我们问自己，会不会有人相信我是无辜的？我的女儿会不会变成单亲家庭的孩子？这个男人会不会伤我的心？午夜时分会不会撞鬼？有时候我们得到的答案，是肯定的。
7-22
A sense of security it'ssomething we all search for.whether it's knowing we'redesired.taking control of our fears.or fiding the strength to dothe right thing.But the danger of a sense of security is that otmay prove to be false.
安全感，是我们每个人都在找寻的东西。无论是我们确信有人倾心，平复自己的恐惧心理，或是用于做出正确的决定。但是感到有安全感的危险就在于情况可能恰恰相反。
7-23
There are many things thatbind friends together.Sharing a laugh over an embarrassingincident.Comforting each other in times of need.Finding it in ourhearts to forgive.But the thing that binds friends together themost is a secret that changes everything.
有许多事，可以让朋友们紧密相连。分享彼此的糗事后相视一笑。身处困境时互相的慰藉，发自内心的宽容原谅，但最能令朋友心手相依的，是一个共同的秘密.一个足以颠覆一切的秘密。
