最近在尝试沉淀看电影学英语的方法,最近看了一部史泰龙早期电影《超越巅峰》,其中一个对白让我印象深刻,对白是发生在扮演父亲的史泰龙和儿子之间的一段对话;不仅学到不错的英文,最重要的是看史泰龙在孩子受到挫折后是如何教育引导孩子的(虽然电影不是真实的生活,但电影也是来源于生活,史泰龙的经历很多人都知道,他对人生的感悟要比常人深刻的多,我相信他在演一个父亲的时候,他会把自己当成一个父亲);我总结了四步:
一、真正的关心孩子,不是批评,这样才会跟孩子没有心的距离(Allicareaboutityou)
二、给到孩子信心和动力
(Youaremyboy.Youarespecial)
三、帮助孩子认识世界和建立信念(theworldmeetsnobodyhalfway,ifyouwantit,you'vegottotakeit.)
四、说服孩子去面对(aslongasyouloseasawinner,itdoesn'tmatter;ifyoudon'tdoit,youwillbesorryyourwholelife);
最后还亲切的问孩子:willyoudoitforme?
对白如下:
Son:Allyouwantedtodowasembarrassme,well,youdidit,ok?GrandfatheralwayssaidyouwerealoserandnowyouaretryingtomakemeoneandIhateyouforit.
Fother:Mike,idon'tcarewhatyougrandfatherthinksaboutme,ok?Allicareaboutisyou.Nowyoulostbacktherebecauseyoubeatyourself.Youletyourselfgetbeat.Iknewyoucandoit.Youareaspecialkid.Youaremyboy,doyouunderstand?Butyouarealsoaspoiled,richbratwho'salwayshadeverythingdoneforhim.Nowit'stimetodoforyourself,Mike,andyoucandoit.Becausei'mtellingyoutheworldmeetsnobodyhalfway.Doyouknowwhatthatmeans?Ifyouwantit,Mike,you'vegottotakeit.Doyouhearme?You'vegottotakeit.Gointhereandtry.Iknowyoucanwin.Butevenifyoudon't,sowhat?Soyoulose.Aslongasyouloseasawinner,itdoesn'tmatter.Becauseyoudiditwithdignity.I'mtellingyouifyoudon'tgointhere,youaregoingtobesorry.Youaregoingtoregretityourwholelife.Youknowwhatimean.Comeon.Iknowyoucandoit.Willyoudoitforme?