爱华网第1节：答案在你心中
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为了心爱的人，
你愿不愿意去一个遥远而陌生的地方，
从此再也见不到朋友和家人?
forapersonyouloveddeeply,wouldyoubewillingtomovetoadistantcountryknowingtherewouldbelittlechanceofseeingyourfriendsorfamilyagain?
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你相信世上有鬼怪与恶魔吗?
你敢不敢整晚一个人，
待在一个传说中的鬼屋?
doyoubelieveinghostsorevilspirits?wouldyoubewillingtospendanightaloneinaremotehousethatissupposedlyhaunted?
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如果今晚你就要死了，
再也没有机会与别人交流，
你最后悔没告诉别人什么?
你为什么一直不愿吐露心声?
第2节：答案在你心中
ifyouweretodiethiseveningwithnoopportunitytocommunicatewithanyone,whatwouldyoumostregretnothavingtoldsomeone?whyhaventyoutoldthemyet?
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如果整整一年都过得幸福美满，
此后就彻底失忆，
你愿意吗?
为什么不愿意?*
ifyoucouldspendoneyearinperfecthappinessbutafterwardwouldremembernothingoftheexperiencewouldyoudoso?ifnot,whynot?
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如果有种新药能治关节炎，
但1%的服用者中会有严重的并发症，
你会向公众推广吗?
ifanewmedicineweredevelopedthatwouldcurearthritisbutcauseafatalreactionin1percentofthosewhotookit,wouldyouwantittobereleasedtothepublic?
第3节：答案在你心中
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你发现由于医院的失误，
你那一岁大的可爱宝宝不是你亲生的。
你会把孩子换回来吗?
youdiscoveryourwonderfulone-year-oldchildis,becauseofamixupatthehospital,notyours.wouldyouwanttoexchangethechildtotrytocorrectthemistake?
7
你认为一百年后世界会比现在更好，还是更糟?
doyouthinkthattheworldwillbeabetteroraworseplace100yearsfromnow?
8
你愿意成为集体项目的世界冠军，
还是个人项目的世界冠军?
你会选择哪一种运动?
wouldyouratherbeamemberofaworldchampionshipsportsteamorbethechampionofanindividualsport?whichsportwouldyouchoose?
第4节：答案在你心中
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你愿不愿意接受一百万美元，
从此离开祖国，
再也不踏上故土一步?*
wouldyouaccept$1,000,000toleavethecountryandneversetfootinitagain?
10
你认为咱们的文化中哪种性别更占优势?
想过要变成另一种性别吗?
whichsexdoyouthinkhasiteasierinourculture?haveyoueverwishedyouwereoftheoppositesex?
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假设你有一种能力:
只要想着让某个人死，
然后重复说两次再见，
那人就会自然死亡，
根本没有人怀疑到你。
你会使用这种能力吗?*
youaregiventhepowertokillpeoplesimplybythinkingoftheirdeathsandtwicerepeatingthewordgood-bye.peoplewoulddieanaturaldeathandnoonewouldsuspectyou.arethereanysituationsinwhichyouwouldusethispower?
第5节：答案在你心中
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如果让三十岁的你再活六十年，
你愿意在以后的日子里，
保持三十岁的身体呢，
还是三十岁的精神?
ifyouwereabletolivetotheageof90andretaineitherthebodyorthemindofa30-year-oldforthelast60yearsofyourlife,whichwouldyouwant?
13
你构想的完美夜晚是什么样的?
whatwouldconstituteaperfecteveningforyou?
14
你愿意事业上功成名就，
个人生活却平庸无奇呢，
还是愿意个人生活幸福美满，
事业却乏善可陈呢?*
wouldyouratherbeextremelysuccessfulprofessionallyandhaveatolerableyetunexcitingprivatelife,orhaveanextremelyhappyprivatelifeandonlyatolerableanduninspiringprofessionallife?
第6节：答案在你心中
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你最崇拜的人是谁?
他在哪些方面激励了你?
whomdoyouadmiremost?inwhatwaydoesthatpersoninspireyou?
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如果你的孩子一出生，你就可以替他选定终生职业，你会不会这样做?
ifatbirthyoucouldselecttheprofessionyourchildwouldeventuallypursue,wouldyoudoso?
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如果让你变得极其丑陋，便可享寿千年，你愿不愿意?*
wouldyoubewillingtobecomeextremelyuglyphysicallyifitmeantyouwouldlivefor1,000yearsatanyphysicalageyouchose?
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如果有一天清晨，你醒来后发现自己拥有了未曾有过的能力与资质，你希望会是什么?
第7节：答案在你心中
ifyoucouldwakeuptomorrowhavinggainedanyoneabilityorquality,whatwoulditbe?
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如果你有缘遇到一个至爱之人，她让你充满爱的喜悦。令人伤心的是，六个月内她就会死去。想想日后的痛苦，你还愿意遇见她，爱上她吗?万一你爱的人不会死，却背叛了你，你会怎样?*
youhavethechancetomeetsomeonewithwhomyoucanhavethemostsatisfyingloveimaginable-thestuffofdreams.sadly,youknowthatinsixmonthsthepersonwilldie.knowingthepainthatwouldfollow,wouldyoustillwanttomeetthepersonandfallinlove?whatifyouknewyourloverwouldnotdie,butinsteadwouldbetrayyou?
第8节：答案在你心中
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如果有一种办法可以让你死后的财产极大地帮助人类，你愿意接受吗?你愿意只留给家人极少的遗产吗?
ifyouknewofawaytouseyourestate,followingyourdeath,togreatlybenefithumanity,wouldyoudoitandleaveonlyaminimalamounttoyourfamily?
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你喜欢男人多一些，还是女人多一些?你的知心好友是男性，还是女性?
doyoupreferbeingaroundmenorwomen?doyourclosestfriendstendtobemenofwomen?
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如果你可以用伏都教盅术任意伤害一个人，你会这样做吗?
ifyoucoulduseavoodoodolltohurtanyoneyouchose,wouldyou?
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一次旅行中，你的伴侣(情人)和陌生人发生了一夜情。如果他们从此不再重逢，也没有任何人知晓此事。你希望伴侣坦诚相告吗?如果换作是你，你会向对方坦白吗?*
第9节：答案在你心中
whileonatriptoanothercity,yourspouse(orlover)meetsandspendsanightwithanexcitingstranger.giventhattheywillnevermeetagain,andthatyouwillnototherwiselearnoftheincident,wouldyouwantyourpartnertotellyouaboutit?ifroleswerereversed,wouldyourevealwhatyouhaddone?
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有没有人让你非常嫉妒，以至于你恨不得变成他?这个人是谁?
aretherepeopleyouenvyenoughtowanttotradeliveswiththem?whoarethey?
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如果你可以到世界任何地方免费旅行一周，你愿意为此扯掉一只美丽蝴蝶的翅膀吗?换作踩死一只蟑螂呢?*
foranall-expense-paid,one-weekvacationanywhereintheworld,wouldyoubewillingtokillabeautifulbutterflybypullingoffitswings?whataboutsteppingonacockroach?
第10节：答案在你心中
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如果你杀死一个无辜的人，就能够制止世界大饥荒，你愿不愿意这样做?*
wouldyoubewillingtomurderaninnocentpersonifitwouldendhungerintheworld?
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如果上帝突然出现，承诺实现你久已有之的梦想，但你必须到红海做一段时间的渔民，你愿意吗?如果要牺牲你的孩子呢?
ifgodappearedtoyouinaseriesofvividandmovingdreamsandtoldyoutoleaveeverythingbehind,travelalonetotheredseaandbecomeafisherman,whatwouldyoudo?whatifyouweretoldtosacrificeyourchild?
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你最珍贵的回忆是什么?
whatisyourmosttreasuredmemory?
第11节：答案在你心中
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你憎恨过别人吗?
如果恨的话，
为什么?
恨了多久?
haveyoueverhatedanyone?ifso,whyandforhowlong?
30
你愿意给自己留一万美元呢，还是将十万美元捐给陌生人?你愿意自己有一百万美元呢，还是捐献两百万美元?
wouldyouratherbegiven$10,000foryourownuseof$100,000togiveanonymouslytostrangers?whatifyoucouldkeep$1,000,000orgiveaway$20,000,000?
31
如果一周内发生核战争，
你会怎么办?
ifyouknewtherewouldbeanuclearwarinoneweek,whatwouldyoudo?
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你愿不愿意拥有二十年的幸福美满，在那以后就死去?
第12节：答案在你心中
wouldyouaccepttwentyyearsofextraordinaryhappinessandfulfillmentifitmeantyouwoulddieattheendoftheperiod?
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你生命中最辉煌的成就是什么?你还有什么地方有待完善?
whatisthegreatestaccomplishmentofyourlife?isthereanythingyouhopetodothatisevenbetter?
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你做过的最欢愉的美梦是什么?最可怕的恶梦呢?
whatwasyourmostenjoyabledream?yourworstnightmare?
35
如果让你用一半的家产来交换一种药，它可以让你脱胎换骨，每天都只睡一小时就精力充沛，足以应付全天的工作，你愿意吗?*
wouldyougiveuphalfofwhatyounowownforapillthatwouldpermanentlychangeyousothatonehourofsleepeachdaywouldfullyrefreshyou?
第13节：答案在你心中
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如果一辈子只能献身于一项事业--音乐、写作、表演、商业、政治、医学，等等，而且会取得辉煌骄人的成就，你会选择哪一种?如果只有10%的成功几率，你还愿意为之努力吗?
ifyouknewyoucoulddevoteyourselftoanysingleoccupation-music,writing,acting,business,politics,medicine,etc.-andbeamongthebestandmostsuccessfulintheworldatit,whatwouldyouchoose?ifyouknewyouhadonlya10percentofbeingsosuccessful,wouldyoustillputintheeffort?
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你有服用依赖性药物或饮酒的愉快经验吗?糟糕的经验呢?
whatwasyourbestexperiencewithdrugsoralcohol?youworstexperience?
第14节：答案在你心中
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如果宴会上有一道你从未尝过的菜，菜名挺古怪，样子也不可爱，你愿不愿意尝试一下?
ifyouwenttoadinnerpartyandwereofferedadishyouhadnevertried,wouldyouwanttotasteitevenifitsoundedstrangeandnotveryappealing?
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你愿意选择多大年龄的人作为挚友，比你年长的，还是比你年幼的?*
doyourclosefriendstendtobeolderoryoungerthanyou?
40
如果你的未婚夫因为车祸瘫痪了，你会坚持和他结婚，还是退婚?
ifthepersonyouwereengagedtomarryhadanaccidentandbecameaparaplegic,wouldyougothroughwiththemarriageorbackoutofit?
第15节：答案在你心中
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有一天，你的房子突然失火了。你把自己最喜欢的东西和宠物都抢救出来了，你还有时间，平安无事地冲进屋里救一样东西，这样东西会是什么?
yourhouse,containingeverythingyouown,catchesfire;aftersavingyourlovedonesandpets,youhavetimetosafelymakeafinaldashtosaveanyoneitem.whatwoulditbe?
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如果知道你的爱人之前有一个同性恋情人，你会是什么反应?*
howwouldyoureactifyouweretolearnthatyourmatehadhadaloverofthesamesexbeforeyoukneweachother?
43
你上次打架是什么时候?为什么打架?谁赢了?
whenwereyoulastinafight?whatcauseditandwhowon?
第16节：答案在你心中
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接受以下条件，你就会得到一百万美元:你面前有十支左轮手枪，其中一支装有子弹，你必须从中选择一支，对准自己的脑袋拉动扳机。如果你有幸活下来，就可以拿走钱。你愿意冒这个险吗?
youareoffered$1,000,000forthefollowingact:beforeyouaretenpistols-onlyoneofwhichisloaded.youmustpickuponeofthepistols,pointitatyourforehead,andpullthetrigger.ifyoucanwalkawayyoudosoamillionaire.wouldyouaccepttherisk?
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如果你的亲人瘫痪在床，非常痛苦，而且只有一个月的活头。他向你索求毒药，以求解脱。你会答应吗?如果这人是你的父亲呢?*
someoneveryclosetoyouisinpain,paralyzed,andwilldiewithinamonth.hebegsyoutogivehimpoisonsothathecandie,wouldyou?whatifitwereyourfather?
第17节：答案在你心中
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你上次唱歌给自己听是什么时候的事儿了?当着别人唱呢?
whendidyoulastsingtoyourself?tosomeoneelse?
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如果你想走多远就多远，一年后还可以返回，并将获得许多受益终生的经验，但没有物质回报，你愿意吗?如果旅程中有50%的生命危险呢?
youhavethepowertogoanydistanceintothefutureand,afteroneyear,returntothepresentwithanyknowledgeyouhavegainedfromyourexperiencebutwithnophysicalobjects.wouldyoumakethejourneyifitcarrieda50percentriskofdeath?
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如果你可以任意挑选，你会选谁当你的座上宾?谁当你的密友?谁做你的爱人?*
第18节：答案在你心中
giventhechoiceofanyoneintheworld,whomwouldyouwantasyourdinnerguest?asyourclosefriend?asyourlover?
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半夜停车时，你不小心刮了一辆保时捷。你确信没人看到这件事，而且刮痕轻微，都不在保险公司的赔付范围内，你会给车主留条说明吗?
whileparkinglateatnight,youslightlyscrapethesideofaporsche.youarecertainnooneelseisawareofwhathappened.thedamageisminorandwouldnotbecoveredbyinsurance.wouldyouleaveanote?
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如果让你选择死亡的方式，你会选什么?*
ifyoucouldchoosethemannerofyourdeath,whatwoulditbe?
第19节：答案在你心中
51
你有没有什么特别的长期目标?
它是什么?
你计划怎么达成?*
doyouhaveanyspecificlong-termgoals?
whatisoneandhowdoyouplanonreadingit?
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生命中最让你感恩的是什么?
forwhatinyourlifedoyoufeelmostgrateful?
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如果人们在餐馆里为你高唱生日快乐，你将作何反应?
howdoyoureactwhenpeoplesinghappybirthdaytoyouinarestaurant?
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你能想象到的、最痛苦的精神折磨是什么?不用考虑一丁点儿身体上的损伤。
whatistheworstpsychologicaltortureyoucanimaginesuffering?anythingcausingevenminorphysicalinjuryshouldnotbeconsidered.
第20节：答案在你心中
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你愿意你的配偶比你聪明、更有魅力吗?
wouldyoulikeyourspousetobebothsmarterandmoreattractivethanyou?
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你发现好朋友得了艾滋病，你会避而远之吗?如果得病的是你的兄弟姐妹呢?
ifyoufoundthatagoodfriendhadaids,wouldyouavoidhim?whatifyourbrotherorsisterhadit?
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如果一年不过性生活，你会更加平静安谧，你愿意吗?
wouldyoubewillingtogiveupsexforoneyearifyouknewitwouldgiveyouamuchdeepersenseofpeacethanyouhavenow?
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如果你的朋友存心捉弄你，拿你的弱点开玩笑，让你下不来台，你将作何反应?*
第21节：答案在你心中
agoodfriendpullsoffawell-conceivedpracticaljokethatplaysononeofyourfoiblesandmakesyoulookridiculous.howwouldyoureact?
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你掌握着一项基金，必须在十五年内找到一种疾病的治疗方法。但是，其他疾病就不会有任何进展。你还会认准一种疾病吗?
bycontrollingmedicalresearchfunds,youareinthepositiontoguaranteethatacurewillbefoundin15yearstoranydiseaseyouchoose.unfortunately,noprogressonanyotherswouldbemadeduringthatperiod.wouldyoutargetonedisease?
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如果你可以多活一年，前提是另外一人少活一年，你愿意吗?如果你知道这个人是谁呢?
第22节：答案在你心中
wouldyouaddoneyeartoyourlifeifitmeanttakingoneyearfromthelifeofsomeoneintheworldselectedatrandom?woulditmatterifyouweretoldwhoselifeyouhadshortened?
60.如果你可以多活一年，前提是另外一人少活一年，你愿意吗?如果你知道这个人是谁呢?
wouldyouaddoneyeartoyourlifeifitmeanttakingoneyearfromthelifeofsomeoneintheworldselectedatrandom?woulditmatterifyouweretoldwhoselifeyouhadshortened?
61.你会当着别人的面小便吗?
canyouurinateinfrontofanotherperson?
62.一天清晨，你走出屋门时，发现附近的灌木丛上蜷缩着一只断了翅膀的小鸟，你会怎么做?
第23节：答案在你心中
ifyouwalkedoutofyourhouseonemorningandsawabirdwithabrokenwinghuddledinsomenearbybushes,whatwouldyoudo?
63.假设有一种仪器，
可以让人们的洲际旅行又快捷、又便宜。
不幸的是，
这种仪器每年会使十万人丧生，
你会阻止它吗?
assumetherewereatechnologicalbreakthroughthatwouldallowpeopletotravelaseasilyandcheaplybetweencontinentsasbetweennearbycities.unfortunately,therewouldalsobe100,000deathsayearfromthedevice.wouldyoutrytopreventitsuse?*
64.你和你深爱的人被困在不同的房间里，每人面前有一个按钮。一小时内，如果你按下按钮，你将被杀死，但对方会活下来。如果不按，谁都活不成，你会怎么做?
第24节：答案在你心中
youandapersonyoulovedeeplyareplacedinseparateroomswithabuttonnexttoeachofyou.youknowthatyouwillbothbekilledunlessoneofyoupressesyourbuttonbefore60minutespass;furthermore,thefirsttopressthebuttonwillsavetheotherperson,butwillimmediatelybekilled.whatdoyouthinkyouwoulddo?
65.讲故事的时候，你会夸大其词、添油加醋吗?如果是，为什么?
whenyoutellastory,doyouoftenexaggerate-ateorembellishit?ifso,why?
66.你是否格外看重年长者的建议，是因为他们的经历较多吗?
doyoufeelthatadvicefromolderpeoplecarriesaspecialweightbecauseoftheirgreaterexperience?*
第25节：答案在你心中
67.如果不捐献出自己的一个肾，你身边的一个人就会在一个月内死去。矛盾的是，捐肾手术的成功率只有50%，即使成功了也会影响你将来的日常生活，你愿意做这个手术吗?
withoutyourkidneyasatransplant,someoneclosetoyouwilldiewithinonemonth.theoddsthatyouwillsurvivetheoperationareonly50percent,butshouldyousurviveyouwouldbecertainofanormallifeexpectancy.wouldyouconsenttotheoperation?*
68.什么时候你的生活因为外来因素而发生过重大改变?如果可以掌握生命的历程，你感觉如何?
whenhasyourlifedramaticallychangedastheresultofsomeseeminglyrandomexternalinfluence?howmuchdoyoufeelincontrolofthecourseofyourlife?*
第26节：答案在你心中
69..如果有个朋友老是迟到，你会不满吗?还是默不作声?有人要求过你守时吗?
ifafriendwerealmostalwayslate,wouldyouresentitorsimplyallowforit?canyoubecountedontobeontime?
70.你大声喝斥过别人吗?为什么?过后感到内疚吗?
whendidyoulastyellatsomeone?why?didyoulaterregretit?
71.如果做一整年的噩梦，你就会得到巨额财富，你愿不愿意?
wouldyoubewillingtohavehorriblenight-mareseverynightforayearifyouwouldberewardedwithextraordinarywealth?*
72.如果五年内，你可以免费享受以下服务中的一种:高级厨师、熟练的司机、能干的管家、周到的按摩师、贴心的私人秘书，你会选择哪一种?
第27节：答案在你心中
ifyoucouldhavefree,unlimitedserviceforfiveyearsfromanextremelygoodcook,chauffeur,housekeeper,masseuse,orpersonalsecretary,whichwouldyouchoose?
73.去屠宰场杀一头牛，你愿意吗?那吃肉呢?
wouldyoubewillingtogotoaslaughterhouseandkillacow?doyoueatmeat?
74.你愿意过一个月的世外桃源生活吗?那里风景如画，有充足的食物，而且很安全，只是杳无人烟。
wouldyouenjoyspendingamonthofsolitudeinabeautifulnaturalsetting?foodandshelterwouldbeprovidedbutyouwouldnotseeanotherperson.
75.一次体检后，医生一脸肃穆地告诉你，你患上了一种罕见的淋巴癌，只能活几个月了。五天后，她再一次通知你，是化验室弄错了，你没有任何问题。在这几天的煎熬中，你获得了许多宝贵的见识。你认为这些值得用痛苦去换取吗?
第28节：答案在你心中
afteramedicalexamination,yourdoctorcallsandgravelysaysyouhaveararelymphaticcancerandonlyafewmonthstolive.fivedayslater,sheinformsyouthatthelabtestsweremislabeled;youareperfectlyhealthy.forcedforamomenttolookdeathintheface,youhavebeenallowedtoturnandgoon.duringthosedifficultdaysyouwouldcertainlyhavegainedsomeinsightsaboutyourself.doyouthinktheywouldbeworththepain?
76.一个夏日炎炎的午后，你在一辆锁好的车子里发现了一只快要热死的狗，你会怎么做?
onehotsummerafternoon,whilewalkingthroughaparkinglotatalargeshoppingcenter,younoticeadogsufferingbadlyfromtheheatinsidealockedcar.whatwouldyoudo?
第29节：答案在你心中
77.一个人用餐或看电影时，你是否心神不宁、局促不安?一个人去度假呢?
doyoufeelillateasegoingalonetoeitherdinneroramovie?whataboutgoingonavacationbyyourself?
78.如果知道自己一年后会突然死去，你会改变现有的生活方式吗?
ifyouknewthatinoneyearyouwoulddiesuddenly,wouldyouchangeanythingaboutthewayyouarenowliving?
79.为了两万美元，你愿意两个月不洗澡，不刷牙，不使用任何除臭剂吗?而且你还不能对任何人解释这么做的原因。当然了，这不会影响你的事业。
for$20,000wouldyougoforthreemonthswithoutwashing,brushingyourteeth,orusingdeodorant?assumeyoucouldnotexplainyourreasonstoanyone,andthattherewouldbenolong-temeffectonyourcareer.*
第30节：答案在你心中
80.你愿意五十岁时在友爱中平静死去，还是八十岁时孤独离世?假设你后来三十年的生活大都如意。
wouldyouratherdiepeacefullyamongfriendsatage50,orpainfullyandaloneatage80?assumethatmostofthelast30yearswouldbegoodones.
81.发现自己最好的朋友居然贩毒，你会怎么做?
ifyouweretodiscoverthatyourclosestfriendwasaheroindealer,whatwouldyoudo?
82.当你需要援手时，你愿意接受帮助吗?你会开口求助吗?
isiteasyforyoutoaccepthelpwhenyouneedit?willyouaskforhelp?
83.如果你正为一家慈善机构筹款，有个人向你提出，如果你愿意在接下来的慈善演出中表演，他就会捐出一大笔善款，你会不会去?你会表演什么?想想看，可有一千名观众在看你呢。
第31节：答案在你心中
ifyouwerehelpingtoraisemoneyforacharityandsomeoneagreedtomakealargecontributionifyouwouldperformattheupcomingfund-raisingshow,wouldyou?ifso,whatwouldyouliketoperform?assumetheshowwouldhaveanaudienceofabout1,000.
84.如果切掉一根手指，
就能保证你今后不会患上任何重大疾病，
你愿意吗?
wouldyouhaveoneofyourfingerssurgicallyremovedifitsomehowguaranteedimmunityfromallmajordiseases?
85.你想出名吗?以何种方式出名?
wouldyouliketobefamous?inwhatway?
86.你构想过自己的葬礼吗?对你来说，有人哀悼你重要吗?
第32节：答案在你心中
howdoyoupictureyourfuneral?isitimportantforyoutohavepeoplemournyourdeath?*
87.你可以忍受以下哪种限制:永远离开你的国家，或永远不能离开你现在生活的地方?
whichofthefollowingrestrictionscouldyoubesttolerate:leavingthecountrypermanently,orneverleavingthestateinwhichyounowlive?
88.在一次丛林远足中，你的好友和你的父亲踩到了一窝蛇，同时被毒蛇咬伤，生命危在旦夕。如果你口袋中装有解毒剂，可只够一个人用，你该怎么办?
you,yourclosestfriend,andyourfatherareonvacationtogether,hikinginaremotejungle.yourtwocompanionsstumbleintoanestofpoisonousvipersandarebittenrepeatedly.youknowneitherwilllivewithoutanimmediateshotofanti-venom,yetthereisonlyasingledoseofanti-venomanditisinyourpocket.whatwouldyoudo?
第33节：答案在你心中
89.如果让你把自己放在1至10的渐进等级中，其中，1代表艰难困苦、挣扎奋斗、功成名就;10则代表舒适安逸、心绪平静、庸碌无为，你会选哪个等级?为什么?
wherewouldyouchoosetobeifyoucouldplaceyourselfanywhereonascalefromonetoten,whereoneishardship,struggle,andextraordinaryaccomplishmentandteniscomfort,peaceofmind,andnoaccomplishment.why?whereareyounow?
90.如果你能选择即将出生的孩子的性别与外貌，你会怎么做?
ifyoucouldchoosethesexandphysicalappearanceofyoursoon-to-be-bornchild,wouldyoudoit?*
