沉痛悼念于明辉同学 沉痛悼念父亲去世祭文

在此对于明辉同学的不幸逝世表达沉痛的悼念，去往天国的路上一路走好，希望他的家人能够经受住这巨大的悲痛，走好以后的路。

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美国哥大一中国留学生因躲避抢劫不幸遇车祸身亡

中新社纽约四月五日电(邓悦)美国纽约哥伦比亚大学二十四岁的中国留学生于明辉四日晚在校区附近因躲避抢劫而不幸遭遇车祸，送医院后于当晚抢救无效而身亡。

　　五日下午，哥伦比亚大学中国学生学者联谊会的众多成员以及于明辉生前的同学好友自发聚集在于明辉所住的公寓外，并举行了简短的悼念活动。

　　哥大校方已在第一时间通过电子邮件向校内师生通告了此事，并对于明辉的不幸去世表示哀悼。同时中国驻纽约总领事馆也已获知此事，并已联系上于明辉在山东潍坊的家人。目前在协助于明辉的父母办理签证手续，尽快赴美处理相关后事。

　　据警方报告称，四月四日晚八点五十分左右，在哥大附近的百老汇大道和西一百二十二街交口处，两名非洲裔男子企图抢劫于明辉。于明辉在试图摆脱劫匪纠缠时被一辆当时向南急驶的汽车撞上。随后他被送往医院进行抢救，数小时后被院方宣布不治身亡。目前纽约警方正在通过监视录像全力通缉试图抢劫并逃逸的两名非洲裔少年嫌犯。

　　据哥大中国学生学者联谊会负责人介绍，于明辉是该校统计学专业在读的博士生，于二OO六年毕业于中国科技大学少年班，当年秋天到哥大就读。他曾担任哥大学生会外联部部长的职务。熟悉于明辉的多位好友和同学称于明辉在校成绩优异，并乐于助人。他们对于明辉的死讯感到悲痛和惋惜。

Message from President Lee C. Bollinger, University Mourns Loss ofPhD Student Minghui Yu

Dear Members of the Columbia Community:

I am writing to share very sad news about one of our graduatestudents.

Last night a PhD student in the Graduate School of Arts andSciences, Minghui Yu, was struck by an automobile two blocks northof our main campus at 122nd Street and Broadway while he wasapparently fleeing an attempted robbery on the sidewalk. Thestudent was taken to St. Luke's Hospital but passed away as aresult of the severe injuries he had sustained.

An NYPD investigation is underway and is being supported by theUniversity's Department of Public Safety which, last nightfollowing university procedures, circulated an alert to studentaffairs deans at all of our schools with information about possiblesuspects in the attempted robbery.

As a community we mourn the loss of one of our members, andespecially of a young person with much to look forward to in a lifeof promise. The University's counseling services are available toanyone who feels he or she could benefit from expert support inresponse to this deeply sad event. Please do not hesitate to visitCounseling and Psychological Services on the 8th floor of LernerHall today from 1-5 p.m., or call at any time 212-854-2878 if youfeel such assistance would be helpful to you.

While incidents of crime have been significantly reduced in NewYork over recent decades, and the area of Morningside Heights iswithin one of the safest precincts in the city, it is neverthelessimperative that we all take reasonable precautions appropriate tolife in a large metropolitan environment. Our Department of PublicSafety has worked closely with the NYPD in safeguarding members ofour University Community and offers a range of services – includingsafety escorts, evening shuttle buses and directed patrols – thathelp ensure students, faculty and staff can both be, and feel,secure while living, studying and working here. We constantlyreview and seek to improve public safety operations. If you wouldlike more information on these services, go to:www.columbia.edu/cu/publicsafety, or call212-854-2797.

The family of the graduate student has been notified. We willbegin plans for a memorial event on campus. For today, I know weare united as a community in mourning the tragic loss of a younglife.

Lee C. Bollinger

Grad Student Fleeing Mugging Killed by Car

By DanielAmzallag, AlexanderPeacocke and AlixPianin

PUBLISHED APRIL 5, 2008

Minghui Yu, a student in the Graduate School of Arts andSciences, was hit by a car after fleeing an attempted muggingFriday night and subsequently died at St. Luke's Hospital.

According to the New York Police Department, the 24-year-oldwas struck by an SUV on the west side of Broadway between 121st and122nd streets at around 8:50 p.m. Friday night, andwas suspected by responding officers to have been the victim of arobbery.

Yu was taken from the scene in critical condition by emergencymedical services to St. Luke's Hospital, where he died from severehead trauma, police and public safety officials said.

"It's very sad," Associate Vice President for Public SafetyJames McShane said. The Department of Public Safety circulated asecurity alert with surveillance photos of the two suspects toUniversity administrators Friday night.

The victim's assailants, described as two black males, fled thescene after "attempt[ing] to remove property from the victim byforce" and are still at large, a police report said. The driver ofthe vehicle stopped immediately after hitting Yu, and police saidno criminality is suspected of the driver.

"I heard a thud. I came to the gate, looked across the street,saw a commotion ... I saw the guy laying there." John Stathus, whosaid he witnessed the incident, said at the scene Fridaynight.

Police kept Broadway from 120th to 122nd streets cornered offthrough early Saturday morning. A pair of sneakers and a bag werevisible in the road on 122nd street Friday night, and somewitnesses said they saw pools of blood on the road.

"While incidents of crime have been significantly reduced inNew York over recent decades, and the area of Morningside Heightsis within one of the safest precincts in the city, it isnevertheless imperative that we all take reasonable precautionsappropriate to life in a large metropolitan environment,"University President Lee Bollinger wrote in a University-widee-mail Saturday morning.

Yu was a PhD candidate in statistics at GSAS and a statisticsteaching fellow. A native of China and a graduate of the Universityof Science and Technology of China, Yu was a Department Chair forthe Columbia University Chinese Students and ScholarsAssociation.

"Loving painting as a kid, Minghui always dreamed of turninginto an artist, but he would never imagine studying on a sciencemajor in the college then years later," Yu's biography on the CUSSAWeb site said.

"As a community we mourn the loss of one of our members, andespecially of a young person with much to look forward to in a lifeof promise," Bollinger said, adding that the University'sCounseling and Psychological Services would be available today forstudents who wish for "expert support in response to this deeplysad event."

Please continue to check www.columbiaspectator.com for updates.

Police ask anyone with relevant information to call1-800-577-TIPS.

news@columbiaspectator.com

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标 题: 纪念于明辉

发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Apr 609:51:34 2008)

我是于明辉的高中同学。我不是科大的，但我mm是科大的。我们都是他的朋友，听到他

出事了，我不知道该去哪里，可以写点东西纪念他。我想，或许是这里吧。

昨晚两点多，臭打电话给我，“于明辉出事了，他在纽约街区遭遇黑人抢劫，

那个...”我连问怎么了，臭却一直说“那个...”我问，是不是受伤了，臭说不是。顿

时，我心里一紧，我问，“他没了么？”臭嗯了一声。然后说也只是听说，可能不是，

还要上网看一下确认这个消息。可是几秒钟后，google搜到的新闻让我愣住了。

到现在，已经快一天了。每当一个人安静下来时，看到网络上的消息，看到你照片上那

带着些狡黠的笑容，我却还是不能平静，不愿意相信这样的事情竟然发生在了你身上。

我努力的想，却也记不清我们最早是怎样认识的了。现在回想起来，一切都那么自然，

仿佛你一直就在我的生活中。高中三年，一班和二班，同样的老师给我们上课，参加物

理小组，课间的讨论，或许最早，我们就是这样认识的吧。似乎记得高一第一次期中考

试之后，YYQ年级第一，好像远远甩下我们四五十分。我们聚在一起，开着玩笑咬牙切

齿的声讨这个没人性的“牲口”，我们赞叹的口气中，其实都透着一样的不服气。后来

，大家熟了，又都在自力更生的做竞赛题。无数个课间，我跑到你们教室后门喊一声，

或者你在门口叫声小刁——几乎所有人都叫我老刁，唯有你一直这样叫——几个人就拿

着铅笔捏着几张草稿纸跑到走廊里，面红耳赤的讨论这个题怎么做，或者吹捧谁的某个

方法多么帅。有时候，为了在某个问题上说服李老师，我还要通过你曲线救国，因为大

家都知道李老师最疼你，拿你像儿子一样，也最听得进你的话。那时候，你常穿着蓝色

校服衬衫，晃晃的走，然后咂咂嘴巴的样子，我至今也还记得。

高二我们几个人一起去山大参加物理竞赛的复赛，车上你抱着随身听听英文歌，大家胡

吹海聊，那时我才知道，你喜欢听英文歌，还痴迷于画画，而不是我以前认为的是个书

呆子。那时我大概是刚放弃了林忆莲开始痴迷孙燕姿，你试图启发我对英文歌的热情，

却失败的发现这方面我实在不是个知音——我连歌词都听不懂也不想听懂。然后竞赛那

几天吃饭的时候，你们都喜欢上了我妈给我带的酱肉。以至于若干家长纷纷来询问配方

，最后请你们来我家大吃了一顿。那时我们都轻松，快乐，无忧无虑，心比天高。

转眼就是高三，物理竞赛，你我都失利了，我们怀着最大的希望，付出了努力，却连高

二考的成绩都没有达到。我痛哭一场，就失意的回了学校，而你作为我们几个人里面公

认物理最好的，被李老师要求留在济南帮助进入决赛的几个哥们准备实验部分。后来听

说，当他们进入决赛考场之后，你才开始在李老师面前痛哭。明辉，你真是好样的。

竞赛过后，黑色的高三真正开始了。以前常常混在一起的一群人，大都已经通过竞赛获

得了保送，只剩下我们俩还在高考第一线熬。高考前几周的一天晚自习，我们坐在教学

楼前的花坛边闲聊，开始时你问我怎么要怎么应付高考的八股文作文，慢慢一直谈到你

对绘画的热爱，谈到我们对即将到来的选择的迷茫，谈到对自己状态的担心。最后我们

的结论是，算了，紧张个P,老子大不了上山大嘛。哎，那天夜风吹过脸庞的感觉我还记

得，你的眼神，语气我还记得，而你，却怎么就不在了呢？

高考。理科综合结束走出考场，在门口碰到你。然后我们对了对答案，放心的发现最后

一道27分的物理题结果一样，却没意识到已经把周围一群在听咱俩对答案的哥们吓得目

瞪口呆。后来公布答案的报纸出来了，你给我打电话，问我怎么样。我说我完了，你呢

？你说你也完了，我说我烧错绳子了，你说一样烧错了。两声苦笑，我说咱俩还真是一

条船上的，你说是啊难兄难弟，竞赛一起砸锅，连绳子都一起烧错。损失了27分，你理

综269,我理综271，你675分最后去了科大，然后去了零零班。我674去了南大，然后稀

里糊涂的进了一个什么生物理科基地班。

大学刚开始后的几个暑假寒假，你，我，JX，YYQ,还有HX，都会去世纪泰华楼下的KFC

小聚一下。随便点些东西，拿着红茶一次一次的续杯，一起吹牛聊天。大二是我在南大

堕落的一年，那时就连大学物理第二学期的论文都是你给我的。之后，更多关于你的消

息是从臭臭那里听到的。听说你在大学的第一个中秋如何想家，听说你在科大还是几年

如一日的努力着奋斗着，听说你每天除了睡觉在宿舍里待的时间决不超过15分钟的“传

奇”故事。后来，去了一次科大，你逃课陪我在科大的树林里坐了一下午，聊了一下午

，然后送我上公车回南京。再后来，要申请了，快毕业了，听说你拿了科大学生最高的

荣誉郭沫若奖学金，又听说你申请并不太顺利，拿到了Columbia的offer，却与那些超

级牛校失之交臂。走之前的那个暑假，你我JX又一起吃了顿饭，那时我们都踌躇满志，

海阔天空的扯着，还开玩笑说你的offer最好这顿就你请吧。却怎么也没想到，这次见

面，竟成永别。

再后来，在香港，听说你从哥大物理系转到了统计系，几个认识你的朋友又一起由衷赞

叹了一下老于可真是牛人，就等着看他毕业后杀进华尔街吧。或许你不知道，你在我们

口中，都是可以用来炫耀的山东人的代表。高大，帅气，上进，有毅力，够牛，人缘好

，有梦想，会生活，有前途，甚至开玩笑说连你的每个女朋友都是又牛又漂亮...前段

时间在facebook上联系到了你，还问你什么时候回家，还建议你暑假从香港转机，还笑

说照片里你nice belly。现在再到你的space，到你的facebook上，看到一句句你写下

的话，一张张你的照片，这些本该是有趣亲切的东西，给我的却是物是人非的感觉。

老于啊，明辉啊，我是真TMD的想不明白了。这世界怎么会这么不公平，怎么会让你收

获这样一个结局！看到好多人说 May you rest in peace.好多人写原你在天堂安息，我

觉得真不是个滋味。安息，这个词怎么会和你扯在一起呢。我们都看着，你一直在不断

的努力，一直在不断的拼搏，一直在向着自己清晰的目标踏踏实实的一步一步的前进着

，你的路本应该还长，你才24岁，你还得继续折腾啊！可是你怎么现在就停下了呢！！

！天妒英才啊！如果可以，我真的想拒绝接受你就这样离开了我们了！

但愿，愿你只是去了另外一个世界。在那个世界里，你还能实现你的梦想，你还能获得

本该属于你的成功和荣耀，你还能拥有你的精彩。

老于，你的精神，会永远鼓舞着我们。我们会常常想你的。

仅以这无力的文字，纪念我们一起度过的高中生活，纪念我们的友谊，纪念你那短暂却

又精彩的一生。

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