As we know that senior middle school is not allowed romance, becaus e our parents and teachers think that study is the most important thi ng for us. Almost major of them hold the idea that college romance maymakeabad influence to our study. Once we enter the college there are no constraints .We are supposed to balance our study and personal life. There are different kinds of love on campus. Some students regard lo ve as killing time or adding color; some are pragmatic, thinking it's d ifficult to find a better partner after graduation; the purpose of other s is for seeking the impetus of study. Anyhow, far away from home and alone, seeking friendship, understa nding and love, the boys and girls easily find comfort and appreciatio n from eachother. As a mater of fact, love is a sharp double-bladed knife. Having it will make you very happy; while losing it, you always feel disappointed and depressed. When the bond of love broken, it’s difficult for someone to get out of the shadow especially for girls . However,we are young,we have enough time to solve these problems and bear the consequences . The meaning of college romance can’t be ignored. Firstly,it teaches us how to love, how to communicate and how to tak e care of others.It can’t be denied that EQ is more important than IQ to some extent. you can learn many qualities from her, you will change your lifestyle and habit gradully when you stay with him . Then ,it encourages us to study harder because there is someone we c an study together. we can talk about the question together and learn some good thoughts from each other . I think we can absorb knowledge more quickly and efficiently by this way . What’s more, we can leave some unforgettble memories for college,you know how the time flies, four -year is so short that we must enrich our experience , we travel at somewhere with our good friends or lover, there are many interesting things happened on the way .
Some people say that college students should take up part-time jobs because they have much more free time than in the high school. While the others worry about that taking part-time jobs may have negative effects on study. In my opinion, I think part-time jobs have both advantages and disadvantages.
On one hand, part-time jobs can broaden students’ horizon and make their free time more colorful. They do not only have the life on campus but also have many social activities. In this way, they can lead to a varied life. What’s more, their personal development can be enhancing to a better level. Some part-time jobs can have great contribute to the society. For instance, to be a volunteer in the orphanage, or do some cleaning for the community. Through these work, the students will realize their personal value and know that they are capable people. The part-time jobs also help the students to realize that ma-ki-ng money is not easy, they should appreciate that their parents hard working. With the money they earn, they can buy the things they want and reduce the family’s economic burdens.
On the other hand, part-time jobs could have negative effects, too. The part-time jobs may take up too much of the free time that students would have no time to relax and study. What’s worse, some students may play truant in order to make more money. Some students even go to jail because they come under the influence of bad people through part-time jobs.
In conclusion, doing part-time jobs have both advantages and disadvantages. Students have to find a balance between their study and the jobs. After all, the main job of the students is to study.